Anna, a middle age woman in England with a self-deprecating look at life, mostly. I am not one thing, I am many and so is my blog. It's a lucky dip when you read me. I am part cook, part struggling fashion forward thinker, part mother, part professional job holder, part chicken keeper, part shopper. I am not an expert on anything other than me and I'm a 'bitsa'. So is my blog, bitsa' this, bitsa' that. I'd love to have your comments on my bitsa' life. Please follow and share my story.
Vlogmas One 2018
How are your festive preparations going? I have barely started but what I have started I can share with you in this vlogmas 1 video. Mr Him does star but at least he's not singing or dancing (which does happen in later vlogmases.) He is just wearing a questionable shirt. You know his loud taste in clothes! Miss 24 also stars.
Enjoy,
A UK Spa Break
Today I'm appealing to the voyeur in you as I take you to stay in a spa. So if you've ever wondered what a spa break in an old English house is like join me watching the video below. Mr Him does not appear so do not fear.
Simple Minds and the Grandslam Concert
Mr Him took me to see Simple Minds in the summer. Well, I saw them. He spent much of the time in a queue for gin for me. Still I had a great time. Enjoy the video of what I could film of KT Tunstall, Pretenders and Simple Minds.
Mr Him Foibles the Making of Sloe GIn
It goes like this. Mr Him was proud. He had foraged in the woods at great endurance and discomfort to himself. His bruised and battered person from thorns and berry juice returned home with sloes to make his sloe gin. He gathered his instruments and set to work. A demijohn, some gin, sloe berries, sugar and maple syrup.
He poured in the berries, he poured in the sugar (except he didn't), he got a funnel to ease in the pouring of sugar (except it didn't)....anyway I have told you enough.
Here is the video and beforehand you will see him taking me to a carwash to give me a date day, yes he's full of romantic ideas, getting me a coffee decorated with 'a splodge', followed by entertaining me with the making of sloe gin.
My Youtube playlists
Whilst Mr Him picks up the courage to resume his nonsense behaviours and defy my instruction to be sensible, you may like to grab a coffee, beer, wine or cocktail and join us on some endeavours.
Here is a playlist of our vacation in Tenerife staring Mr Him, Miss 23 and the Automotive Engineer.
Meanwhile I have seen that Christine asked me if i've thought of doing instagram stories. I smiled I tell you. I have been on instagram for a few years and yes I do stories most days. You will find me on instagram at mutton_style. if you catch it today you will see me having at home dental treatment from Miss 23, haha. Mr Him is on instagram in the guise of a ginger cat, Redrelaxercat.
Travel playlist
Here is a playlist of, well, just English life
and here is a playlist of shopping
and here is a playlist of outfits.
In theory each video will lead you to the next in the playlist you have selected. Yes, I have been busy.
Making of Rhubarb Gin
Update and Vlog
Here it is. Very new. Get it whilst it's young.
Easter Chocolate Dessert
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we like our gravy! The puffy thing is a Yorkshire pudding. The meat is in a bowl top left waiting to be served |
Mr Him cooked roast pork and trimmings and I made an apple and rhubarb crumble using ingredients from the freezer and cupboards so I was pleased with the economy.
Miss 23, made an Oreo dessert. She likes to make the video recipes that flash up on Facebook but I have linked a YouTube below for you. It was funny hearing Miss 23 say 'it looks like its meant to!' Don't we all feel that when it turns out right, haha.
Introducing the Continental Drift Linkup blog hop
Wecome to our Continental Drift linkup! The reason we decided to have a dabble at a link up was that we thought that there are so many genre of bloggers out there that we could learn from that we decided to gather a knowledge and lifestyle share in one place once a month. On the first of the month we will host the Continental Drift.
Well, I'm from the UK so it falls upon me to write on my life here. March has been the month when the cold war seems to have started once again. We are living a John Le Carre novel. The news every single day features the latest update on the poisoning of the former Russian spy and his daughter.
March also sees Mothering Sunday in the UK or known more commonly now as Mother's Day. Yes we have to be different don't we! Now Mother's day brings me back to the beginning of this story, Zizzi, for wasn't it in Zizzi that John Le Carre re-visited started in March in the UK!
My oldest daugher decided to take me out to lunch for Mothers Day and booked the Zizzi Mother's Day special (goodness there could be bad taste jokes galore, but I will refrain.) One of my reader's the lovely Pouting Pensioner was quite horrified that I was in Zizzi a week after it's name was all over the news but then realised it was a chain of restaurants.
I also took my mother out for lunch so I am wrapping those two events as one for my favourite thing. It was special to be taken out by my daughter of course but equally special was taking my mother out. She has Neutropenia which is a non-existant immune system so as she says a cold could kill her in a week. She was very depressed after the diagnonsis and lived in bed. I organised social care once a day for her and that motivates her to get up and dressed and so on every day. So for her to enjoy a meal out and glass of wine is special.
Mother's Day in the UK is actually Mothering Sunday and 3 weeks before Easter. It is the day that apprentices and servants were allowed home to visit their mothers in centuries past. I understand that before that it was a day for visiting the 'Mother Church' but we are going back to the 16th century.
Now please do follow each of your hosts Bojana , Sydney Shop Girl and Mutton Style on at least one platform (Instagram, Twitter or blog)and comment on their blogs. It would be great if you could read and comment on the blog above yours in the link up. You might make a new friend.
Please do pop over to see how Bojana , Sydney Shop Girl have spent March on their continent.
Wecome to our Continental Drift linkup! The reason we are dabbling at a link up was that we thought that there are so many genre of bloggers out there that we could learn from that we decided to gather a knowledge and lifestyle share in one place once a month. On the first of the month we will host the Continental Drift.
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